First of all - Congratulations and Welcome!
We are delighted that you are considering a wedding in one of our churches and hope you will find this information helpful.
Once you have read this information and have decided what you would like to do,
(while we have no Team Rector in post,)
please contact The Revd Liz Barnes, Telephone: 01621-333027
We have nine churches in our Team:
| St Luke, Tiptree | All Saints, Messing | All Saints, Inworth |
| All Saints, Great Braxted | St Mary, Easthorpe | St Michael, Copford |
| St Mary, Layer Marney | St John, Layer de la Haye | St Mary, Layer Breton |
What do we need to consider?
Yes, if you are a man and a woman both over 18, British citizens, not related to each other and neither of you has been married before or been in a civil partnership. If you are a foreign national, it may be possible for you to be married in church but you will need to apply for permission from a registrar. EEC nationals will need to show evidence of being granted settled status. If you have been married before, it may still be possible for you to be married in church but this will depend on the circumstances.
By law you can be married in any church where you have a qualifying connection. You would have a connection with a church if you live in the parish or have ever lived in it for at least six months, if your parents live in the parish, if you were christened in the church, if your parents or grandparents were married there, or if you or your parents have worshipped in the church for at least six months. If you have a connection with one of our nine churches, you can choose to be married in any of them.
If you don’t already have a connection with one of our churches, you would need to establish one by coming to church regularly between now and your wedding. This must be for at least six consecutive months before the banns are due to be called, so you need to start attending at least eight months before your wedding or nine months in our smaller churches where services are not held every Sunday. Please note that we cannot book your wedding until you have been coming for six months, but we can hold a date for you.
Your wedding can take place on any day from Monday to Saturday, between 8 am and 5 pm. We are unable to offer weddings on Sundays, bank holidays, Christmas Eve or any day in Holy Week (the week before Easter).
You can choose your entry and exit music, hymns and readings. All of our churches have an organist available and some also have a choir and bells. You may bring your own choir or musicians. You will need at least one reading from the Bible but you can also choose other appropriate readings. You won’t be able to make up your own vows, but you will be able to choose between traditional and modern wording.
This depends on which church you choose. Our smallest churches at Layer Breton and Inworth can seat only 40-60 people, while our largest, in Tiptree, seats up to 200.
If you have a friend or family member who is an ordained Church of England priest with permission from a bishop to take services, it will usually be possible for him or her to take your wedding service. Ministers of other denominations can be invited, at the discretion of the Team Rector, to preach or lead prayers, but the service must be conducted by a Church of England priest.
No, the church takes care of all the legal aspects of your wedding.
This will depend on which church you choose and which options eg choir, bells. Your wedding is likely to cost between £680 and £1000. We won’t ask you to pay a deposit, but your fees will be payable by BACS transfer one month before your wedding. Please talk to us if the cost is a problem as we may be able to help.
If you book a wedding with us, we will invite you to our Marriage Preparation Day in the January of the year you are being married. This a full day when we give you an information pack and talk you through every aspect of your service. You will then meet with the minister taking your wedding about three months beforehand and you will have a full rehearsal in church in the fortnight before your wedding. Each church has a team of vergers who will be on hand to advise you throughout the process.
If you would like to check whether a date is available, ask us to hold a date for you or ask any other questions, please contact The Revd Liz Barnes, Telephone: 01621-333027.
If you have a qualifying connection, please make an appointment to come and book your wedding.
If you have been married before and are now divorced, you will need a longer appointment. Please contact Liz Barnes to arrange this.
If you don’t already have a qualifying connection with any of our churches, you will need to start coming to services. You can find our service times on our weekly news sheet on our website:
thurstablewinstreechurches.org
We look forward to meeting you and helping you plan
for your wedding day.
Making an Appointment to book your Wedding
Appointments are available by contacting The Revd Liz Barnes, Telephone: 01621-333027.
When you come for your appointment, please bring with you:
Please remember that you must have a qualifying connection before you come to book your wedding.
Please contact The Revd Liz Barnes, Telephone: 01621-333027, to book your appointment.
Website: thurstablewinstreechurches.org
The information above, in the form of a PDF leaflet, is available here to view or download
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